I had a shitty date last night with a man from one of my meetup.com groups. Although he asked me out for a drink, he showed up about 10 minutes late. I being a modern woman ordered myself a drink and laid down a $20. But the bartender did not take my money. I thought it was weird especially since it wasn't very busy. Low and behold my "date" comes in, the bartender takes his order and then picks up MY $20 and asks if he should take both out of it.
I was very annoyed. And there were other things this man did that were just gross that night as well. I gave him an hour and got out of there.
When I got home I emailed with a male FB friend who informed me I was wrong to be pissed about the money situation and told me it should be Dutch and women should never assume that a man should pay.
So let me just say to that male friend that
A) NEVER argue with a woman that just had a bad date.
B) You're STILL wrong.
And see how others felt about this as well.
